Brown Queen cares about people. A better Brown Queen knows that what she wants and how she feels is important as well. It's perfectly o.k. to learn from others and grow. It's when you take on others' desires as your own because you lack your own is where the issue begins. Being too easily influenced and impressionable causes you to lose your individuality. Being an individual and being able to take a stand for what you believe is key to not having your every move be dictated by everyone other than yourself. To have your own mind is to make your own decisions based on what's best for you. Take the time to look out for yourself. If anyone has your best interest at heart, it should be you. You can't please all of the people all of the time.