Soul Search Sunday: The Grudge

     Newsflash! Trying to get back at someone by being mad at them for something they did to you is also hurting you. If you are mad at someone who doesn't even know that you've been holding a grudge against them then the only person who really cares is you. Holding on to that old baggage is keeping you from being the best Brown Queen you can be. Forgiving someone is not just letting them off the hook, it's relieving yourself from the all the stress that comes along with holding that grudge. Let it go for your sake and your sanity. Let that person go if things are that bad. Give them the boot with a nice big "forgiveness" on the bottom of it. If you've really let them go then rest easy because you no longer need to put so much effort into being mad.     

      

SERVICE SATURDAY: Take A Stand Against Abuse

      

       I have been hearing so much about abuse lately. It's been a combination of child abuse and domestic abuse against women. A child is almost rendered defenseless in most situations when they are being abused. It's a very touchy situation to question a parent about their choices of discipline. But if you know if someone is going too far, take the best approach to the situation as possible that will be most effective. Domestic abuse against women is a very common issue in our black communities and it should not be tolerated. If I could tell one victim who will actually listen, I would simply say "Leave." If you are a victim of domestic violence or abuse or know someone who is a victim, call The Hotline at 1800-799-SAFE(7233)

The National Domestic Violence Hotline creates access by providing 24-hour support through advocacy, safety planning, resources and hope to everyone affected by domestic violence. (from thehotline.org)

Fashion Frenzy Friday: Come Alive in The Night Time

Come Alive in The Night Time by brownqueensconstitution featuring python handbags

Thoughtful Thursday: Need Advive??

You know what to do. If you need advice about anything, shoot me an e-mail. The e-mail address is thebqc@yahoo.com. Be sure to type "advice" in the subject line and I'll answer back right here on The BQC!!

Relations Wednesday: 5 Great Gifts For Your Mom

     Did you wait until the last minute to get your mom a Mother's Day gift? Don't worry, I got your back. Here are 5 great gifts that you can run out and get your mom or have it shipped before the big day. These gifts are sure to make the lady who's always been there for you feel special and appreciated on Mother's Day.

 1. A Michael Kors Watch. Make your mom will feel glamorous with one of these luxurious watches on her wrist.

  

2. Say "Thank you" for all she's done with a gorgeous bouquet of pink roses.

 3. Give her a day off from her long list of Motherly duties and send her off to a relaxing day at the spa.

 

4. Can't decide which great gift to get your mom? Give her the gift of choice. Give a generous

 amount on a Visa Gift Card and let her shop 'til she drops. 

5. Can't afford a gift or if even if you can, spend time with your mom to let her know you'll always make time for her.

Tresses Tuesday: Beautiful New Eurasian Hair

     OK so Brown Queens you know we love our hair. Sometimes we add personality pieces to give us that full and long fabulous celebrity look. If you're looking for quality hair extensions then Brown Queen, Jasmine Anderson, is your girl! She's selling brand new beautiful Eurasian Hair by Ovation. The types and prices are listed below. The weaves are good investments if you plan on keeping them for a while. Judging from the fabulous pics Jasmine sent me of the hair, I would recommend it to all you weave wearing Brown Queens. Looks like a great investment, Ladies. You know I'm always in support of a Brown Queen putting her entrepreneurial foot forward.

Contact Jasmine Anderson at her email address: demjassychicks@gmail.com or visit her site: https://sites.google.com/site/demjassychicks/

Jasmine Anderson-  I recommend this hair to the true weave wearers who are looking for a natural and celeb hairstyle and are looking for an investment. You can reuse the virgin hair up to a year +. You can color it , perm it, and swim in it; whatever you like. It comes in bodywave, medium wave, tight curl, and straight 12-24 in.

12in- $125

15in- $150

18in-$180

21in-$210

24in-$240

4 OZ BUNDLES

The remi hair lasts up to 6 months and better than any beauty supply brands.

10"- $89/4oz bundle

12"- $99/4oz bundle

14"- $109/4oz bundle

16"- $129/4oz bundle

18"- $161/4oz bundle

Available Colors -- #1 #1B #2 #4 #27 #30 #33 P1B/30 P1B/33 P4/30

Contact Jasmine Anderson at her email address: demjassychicks@gmail.com or visit her site: https://sites.google.com/site/demjassychicks/

*Advertise on The BQC while all services(advertisement +  promotion) are free!!! 

Music Monday: Next on the Royal Stage

      Good evening, Brown Queens! I'm glad you could join me on this beautiful MUSIC MONDAY! I'm so excited to introduce these up-and-coming artists that you should know. I'm certain that their music will gain a place in your hearts and hopefully on your ipods. The following artists are next on the royal stage and on the BQC playlist!! Are you not entertained??

1.) Luke James

His gorgeous falsesetto is sure to carry his music from your ears straight to your hearts. He's a former member of r&b group, Luke and Q. You may remember their single "My turn" that came out some years ago. Queens, if his music doesn't win you over, his looks sure will. 

2.) Elle Varner     

Her sense of style is amazing. Her hip-hop infused first single, "Only wanna give it to you" was a complete smash and her second single "Refill" is climbing up the charts fast. I'm looking forward to more music from this artist. Her natural curls are always so perfect with so much volume. Isn't she such a gorgeous brown queen?

3.) Timothy Bloom

He completely stole my heart with his first single " 'Til the end of time". This single is a beautiful musical illustration of that strong black we all hope for. Timothy has a smooth soulful sound that you can't ignore. He's also very easy on the eye. That's always a plus.

***Playlist includes I Want You x Luke James, Refill x Elle Varner, 'Til The End Of Time x Timothy Bloom***